oral apresentation.

Hi, my name is Nilson, I´m gay and I´m a single guy. The ideal partner friend for me is that one who doesn´t use what I´ve said before against me, who cares about the planet in some level, who enjoy to do some tracks and camp, who likes to dance electronic music, who likes to think and talk about the meaning of life and who wants to be a father. 

The three qualities that each one should have are:

1. be gentle but also be sexy and rogue at the right time and the right place;

2. be patience and some kind of best friend, a brow;

3. be a good kisser and be opened to new experiences.

The three qualities that each one should not have are:

1. be indifferent;

2. be a liar;

3. be irresponsible.

My opinion about relationships nowadays is that we are more conect with the technologies stuffs than with ourselves and our partners friends. I believe that we are also hurrier, so we don´t let the things goes naturaly and the relationship is more like a status of the facebook than a real feelling. But also I still can find a guy who enjoys to spend time sleeping together and holding hands. I still can find a guy who likes to watch a movie and give a hand with homeworks.  The sex is important but is not all about it.

Trying to compare the relationships between people 50 years ago and nowadays, I would say that we are more independent, especially the women. I believe that the women is always in front of us, the guys. Nowadays, the church doesn´t burn anymore the women as if they are witches, just because of their way to feel and think better. It´s obvious that I´m comparing more than 50 years ago but also I believe that this compare makes myself  more clear. I´ve heard a man that I admire as a thinker but he´s also a cartoonist (Laerte Coutinho) who says that this discussion about the genders´s diversity is for us, the guys, still a mistery. Because the women are already using masculine´s clothes like outfit and trousers, for an example. Why I can´t use a skirt? Because our culture said so. Why do I talk about gender? Because we are educated to see only two genders: male and female. And because I believe that is an important point to talk about it in a discussion of relationships. Nowadays, we already have woman turning into a man and man turning into a woman, and this same people marry between then. Unfortunately, our culture use the Jesus´s name not to make us to love each other as a brother or a sister, but to controll our minds trough the hell´s fear, trough the sin´s fear, saying what is wrong and what is right and, her most important objective, steal our money. As a gay guy, I could say that at the same time that we have more respect and love for the people we also have a violence like I´ve never hearded before. I believe that at the same time we are coming out, the homofobic people are trying to silent us. Nowadays, we gays can marry but at the same time we also had as a human´s right representative, a bigoted man called Feliciano. I hope that in the future we stop to fight against each other and start to really love.